The culture of entitlement abound in a lot of relationships thereby making one party the Alpha and Omega over the other. Entitlement simply means the art of feeling the right to owning certain privileges and being arrogant about them. Most women feel the need that because they are dating a man, he should be the sole provider of all of their needs. Last week, I saw a video going viral…

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Home decor is one important aspect of every human. While a lot of people love dark tones, many would rather choose bright and colorful spaces. For someone like me, I used to be a colorful home kind of person but as I got older, I realize that colors doesn’t make a home, rather it is a function of how neat your home is and how it defines your personal style.…

Many couples moving in together for the first time might find they run into unexpected challenges. These challenges can range from deciding who’s going to cook dinner and take out the trash to struggles about decor choices in the new space. Going from “my style” and “your style” to “our style” can be difficult, but here are a few tips for going through this process to help avoid fights and live happily ever after.

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Happy birthday to me! Am I excited as I write this post? To be honest, I’m not sure, I am just super indifferent. Everyone says I am supposed to be excited because it’s a new year but then I am not sad. Don’t get me wrong, I am thankful for life, good health and uncountable blessings but there’s still no special aha-ha feeling. Don’t let me rub off my indifferent…

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To unwind does not only revolve around an outdoor activity, rather it include healthy way one can feel re-energized and relax after a stressful activity or long period of time. In cities like Lagos, Fridays are days a whole lot of 9-5 workaholics always look forward to. However in Abuja, the city is not that a busy place and you can definitely relax easily every other day if you are…

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Getting a gift for your partner is one beautiful moment they will always cherish. It doesn’t matter if it’s their birthday, your anniversary, special dates in your lives or just some ‘I love you’ sort of surprise gift. The element of surprise that come with it is very priceless. Over the years, women have gone from buying just singlets and briefs for men to wowing them in delightful ways. Which is…

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Going broke is every human fear, it’s liken to an illness. It is no surprise that when people are broke, they tend to act so angry. A lot of people stay away from the public during such moment, some would even fall sick. The saddest thing about being broke is not that you are poor but from the fact that you used to have and now you no longer do.…

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Creating a work look book has been something I have wanted to do for a long time. Being a 9-5 blogger, I feel it’s an easy way to connect with other working women who have to juggle between work and other activities. Before now, I have the time to plan my week’s outfit every Sunday, but these days, I have lesser time for myself that I only remember it’s Monday…

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Urban Dictionary defines “adulting” as “to carry out one or more of the duties and responsibilities expected of fully developed individuals (paying off that credit card debt, settling beef without blasting social media, etc). Exclusively used by those who adult less than 50% of the time.” While it is not a word you’d find in the English dictionary, adulting has become a word every one in the midlife age can identify with.…

I remember one time when I wore my mother’s bra and I stuffed pieces of clothing in it, I could still remember the look on my mom’s face that day, priceless. I was so ridiculous as a child that I once taped something I can’t remember on my chest to make people think I had started developing breast. Before you start judging me, I was really small for my age. All my friends were taller and bigger and were fully formed before the age of 10 and 11. While I was in Class 5, a friend of mine already had a heap of mountain on her chest and was already talking about periods. So imagine how I felt not even coming close to any of these. It was torment.

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