This morning, my sister was trying to tell me she ran into the taxi guy that drove me once and she was like, ‘Ha, I saw your friend yesterday and I asked him why he hasn’t been coming around.’ My mind did a quick search around the few people I call my friends and the number of those that knows where I stay. I couldn’t figure out one and I…

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So this morning, I got a mail prompt that my darling and favorite blogger Ibukun who blogs at https://ibukunwrites.wordpress.com/  had just dropped a new post and when I opened and read, it was for a nomination post for The Liebster Award. Thanks so much for nominating me Ibukun and trust me I had to click on all the other nominees (the curious part of me) but that that is what…

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This is going to be a rhetoric post, I just need to get some clarifications on this: It’s going to be a comparison between marriage in the ’40s-80’s and the marriages in the ’20’s. I am going to start this with a quick intro about what I learned from my folks about their marriage…it’s a vague note tho…I was told when I was much younger, there might be a few…

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There’s nothing more disrespectful to you trying to be someone else Growing up, I never loved who I became I wish to be another An actress I saw on TV yesterday A magazine model  A friend who has it all The new girl next door 

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When we are children we seldom think of the future. This innocence leaves us free to enjoy ourselves as few adults can. The day we fret about the future is the day we leave our childhood behind. — Patrick Rothfuss Growing up, I wish I had superpowers To make me grow into an adult overnight To jump passed some stages And just become thirty!

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  “Single is no longer a lack of options – but a choice. A choice to refuse to let your life be defined by your relationship status but to live every day Happily and let your Ever After work itself out.” ― Mandy Hale, The Single Woman: Life, Love, and a Dash of Sass  

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Controllers, abusers and manipulative people don’t question themselves. They don’t ask themselves if the problem is them. They always say the problem is someone else.” The cup flew straight at Tania like a grenade hurled at an enemy. It landed perfectly on her head and she screamed out so loud in pain Mama Ranti jumped up from where she sat washing and raced to scoop Tania in her arms. She…

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I was scrolling through my Facebook posts and I stumbled on this dude I paused

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