Hello Debwritesblog lovers, I’m here again. Fourth post in a week and it feels so good. That feeling to be inspired and share is second to none *well, only a writer will understand that part*? We pray for more inspiration, no more writer block and the time to share, Amen??

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I used to feel terrible whenever I say No to someone. I feel I am being rude and I have hurt someone’s feelings. I feel more terrible when I have to ignore the person so I can avoid turning them down to their face. Most times, I realized I end up hurting myself more than the person I’m scared to hurt. Because eventually, I discover what I have accepted to…

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‘Her son is barely 6 months and she’s pregnant again?’ ‘I used to think she would be one who understands what child spacing mean?’ ‘Child spacing??? Her first child was just 8 months when she had her second.’ ‘Jesus! She is so shameful to womanhood.’ ‘I even used to think she is a career woman and would take time to pursue her career instead of birthing up and down like a dog.…

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So many times in our lives, we hold on tight to the most mundane thing we ought to let go. The only reason we find ourselves holding on to this is because we lack the strength to let go. A bad habit you wish to stop but feel you cannot, a friend that keeps bringing you down, that toxic relationship that keeps tearing you apart piece by pieces, that terrible…

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I am back again with another post from my archives. This was written in 2011. After reading this, I really wonder what was going through my mind as I penned this down…I really wish… Souls moan in anguish of our cruelty Hens return to roost The goats stop bleating Birds cease to fly Men retire to their bosom And lovers cling to each other Vehicles seek their parking lot I…

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After reading Josephyna post on My Favorite Teacher, it evolved nostalgic memories about growing up and my mind raced back to the teachers I have met in my life and the one I have tagged my favorite teacher is Rotimi Ilesanmi. Dear Mr Ilesanmi, It has been how many years now??? Should be 8 years since I last saw you. I was home for the holidays in my first year at the…

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  …hehehehehe…this picture caught my attention and I decided to choose it as a welcome intro…   …probably because of the comments I received challenging why “I have to neglect the baby I am nurturing”, “why I feel staying away is the best option”, “what could be so demanding that would make me abandon my blog for a month”, the personal messages encouraging me never to stop writing as I…

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“There is nothing more rare, nor more beautiful, than a woman being unapologetically herself; comfortable in her perfect imperfection. To me, that is the true essence of beauty.” ― Steve Maraboli, Unapologetically You: Reflections on Life and the Human Experience It is my body I love it  I am comfortable in it  It is not too heavy for me  Neither does it occupy too much space than necessary  I love…

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