Most bad behaviour comes from insecurity -Debra Winger It’s quite easy for him to love you to a fault and still not trust you. Very possible. It’s actually not because he doesn’t want to trust you but because he is super insecure in the relationship. Ladies feel insecure too but I’m going to focus on insecure men in relationships cos I’ve experienced a few and it makes me to understand how…

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Love isn’t always perfect. It isn’t a fairytale or a storybook. And it doesn’t always come easy. I’ve read quite a lot of people abuse the word LOVE. Personally, I feel everyone has the right to talk about an experience based on what it gave them- if it’s good, they say it’s the best feeling; if it’s bad they tell you it’s worse. Love is beautiful. Love is awesome. Love…

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I originally read this post on Immanuel’s blog and I could not resist a good laugh. Y’all should please check out his blog…he blogs about Faith, relationship and inspirational. When I read this post, I felt like he was talking about me. I could connect with almost all of it and I commend bobo for still putting up with me after all these…So it’s this hard, chai! Whether you’re a blogger yourself,…

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After a long discussion… Colleague: By the way, are you married? Me: 😊 Ah no Colleague: But why? Me: What kind of question is this? How am I suppose to answer why I’m not yet married?<< lleague: noticed my hesitation… But you will soon, right? Me: Well, yeah…this year or next… Colleague: But how come you are not sure? Me: 😳😳now this is getting really interesting… Well, for one, bobo is…

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Hey darlings. Another day, another blessing! PDA!!! PDA simply means Public Display of Affection. In a layman’s language, it means showing off your relationship on social media. The essence of today’s post is to ask if it’s something to be embraced or not and to here your view on it.

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  I have heard and read quite a number of abuse in relationships and marriage. The stories are really pathetic and you begin to wonder how these people find themselves in this and still choose to stay.   Before I go further, are you aware abuse is not just limited to physical beating? According to loveisrespect.org “Abuse is a pattern of behavior used to gain and maintain power and control,…

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We live in an age where everything is staged Where all we do is fake our feelings – Jon Bellion When I tell people I have eyes everywhere, most of them laugh but I actually do see a lot. Anyway, I have been meaning to do a series of blog posts on this fuckboy or demonizing thing guys do these days but procrastination. What’s this about? A fuckboy is a guy…

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