The culture of entitlement abound in a lot of relationships thereby making one party the Alpha and Omega over the other. Entitlement simply means the art of feeling the right to owning certain privileges and being arrogant about them. Most women feel the need that because they are dating a man, he should be the sole provider of all of their needs. Last week, I saw a video going viral…

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I wish I could tell all of you that dating is easy, but I’d be lying. It’s hard. You can meet singles anywhere these days. From dating apps to in person, and everything in between, you never know when you’re going to meet your next first date. The most important thing to remember when it comes to dating is keeping an open mind. The person you’re meeting up with might…

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When I was in college, (we call that secondary school in Nigeria), I learnt the Law of Diminishing Return in Economics. Little did I know this is also found in relationship as well. The illustration my Economist teacher explained then was etched on my innocent mind and I grew up experiencing this in my daily life. I craved for things so much and after getting a bite, two, three, four…I…

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Where are my darling blog readers? My favorite people, the ones who are always ready to listen and read me at all time. Let’s talk about dating today. I almost went MIA ? You know I can’t do that to you, just kidding. I’ve been carried away with the frenzy of my birthday. Yes, I was a year older on Saturday and I felt like a baby…the calls and prayers were…

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I originally read this post on Immanuel’s blog and I could not resist a good laugh. Y’all should please check out his blog…he blogs about Faith, relationship and inspirational. When I read this post, I felt like he was talking about me. I could connect with almost all of it and I commend bobo for still putting up with me after all these…So it’s this hard, chai! Whether you’re a blogger yourself,…

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After a long discussion… Colleague: By the way, are you married? Me: ? Ah no Colleague: But why? Me: What kind of question is this? How am I suppose to answer why I’m not yet married?<< lleague: noticed my hesitation… But you will soon, right? Me: Well, yeah…this year or next… Colleague: But how come you are not sure? Me: ??now this is getting really interesting… Well, for one, bobo is…

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Hello handsome, I guess you are beginning to get tired of trying Yeah! Trying so hard at pleasing them all But your charm is shallow She doesn’t need you telling her about your exs Or how low you earn She doesn’t need to hear about your sexual prowess all the time You can’t even take her out on a date Without blabbing all about your life You need to up…

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There’s no better joy than when your writings are appreciated or when someone can actually refer to a line of your midnight musings and say, ‘Oh that part made me feel so special.’   The beauty of art is in appreciation.   I was having this thought about the beauty of a  writer dating a writer the other night, and I tried searching for pictures that fit this. I was…

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