“The truth is, unless you let go, unless you forgive yourself, unless you forgive the situation, unless you realize that the situation is over, you cannot move forward” – Steve Maraboli Heartbroken? Hurt? Pained? Finding it hard to move on? You can, and you definitely will Dear Girl, you are perfectly stronger that you think  Way stronger… No relationship should make you feel worthless about yourself! None

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Most bad behaviour comes from insecurity -Debra Winger It’s quite easy for him to love you to a fault and still not trust you. Very possible. It’s actually not because he doesn’t want to trust you but because he is super insecure in the relationship. Ladies feel insecure too but I’m going to focus on insecure men in relationships cos I’ve experienced a few and it makes me to understand how…

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Love isn’t always perfect. It isn’t a fairytale or a storybook. And it doesn’t always come easy. I’ve read quite a lot of people abuse the word LOVE. Personally, I feel everyone has the right to talk about an experience based on what it gave them- if it’s good, they say it’s the best feeling; if it’s bad they tell you it’s worse. Love is beautiful. Love is awesome. Love…

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Happy new month darlings… I’m still really trying to understand how I have just become so lazy these days. I literally get other things done but I don’t understand what is with me and blogging. I can’t seem to finish editing just one single post now. I guess this post will get me back on my feet.

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Hey darlings…The last day of the year. It’s been a dramatic year for me and I’m so glad how it has turned out to be.   I started 2016 on a cryptic note. How it happened I don’t know, let’s just say I followed my instinct and it was the wrongest. I tried to right my wrongs but the more I tried, the more it pulled me down the path…

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He loves her Even in her imperfection With her dirt and secrets With her ache and pain With her lies and uncouth behavior  He made her better Corrected her with love  Taught her about self love  Treated her as a human And respected her  She was slipping into oblivion The damage has been done It was too late to correct it all But she need not correct her past But…

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So many times in our lives, we hold on tight to the most mundane thing we ought to let go. The only reason we find ourselves holding on to this is because we lack the strength to let go. A bad habit you wish to stop but feel you cannot, a friend that keeps bringing you down, that toxic relationship that keeps tearing you apart piece by pieces, that terrible…

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I am back again with another post from my archives. This was written in 2011. After reading this, I really wonder what was going through my mind as I penned this down…I really wish…   Souls moan in anguish of our cruelty Hens return to roost The goats stop bleating Birds cease to fly Men retire to their bosom And lovers cling to each other Vehicles seek their parking lot…

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I am over you Your scent turns my stomach It sends a strong anger down my spine The sight of you makes me wish I had a laser in my eyes I am over you When I am drowning I stay afloat The rage I feel is like a molten magma That cannot be crushed I am over you Your presence is like a shadow Devoid of meaning and purpose…

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  …hehehehehe…this picture caught my attention and I decided to choose it as a welcome intro…   …probably because of the comments I received challenging why “I have to neglect the baby I am nurturing”, “why I feel staying away is the best option”, “what could be so demanding that would make me abandon my blog for a month”, the personal messages encouraging me never to stop writing as I…

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Slowly slipping into oblivion Unconscious of the shadows hovering over the sun And the gloom reflection on the moon The grass turning brown Quiet and withdrawn The music became a favorite companion And the images on the screen, a pastime Waiting endlessly for something that isn’t going to happen…

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In every relationship, communication is key. Between friends, spouses, boss-subordinate, pastor-congregation, teacher-student and the likes. Every two people who have found themselves together in a situation that need them to work together, be together or live together need to ensure there’s a constant communication between them to avoid rift.

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