When I was in college, (we call that secondary school in Nigeria), I learnt the Law of Diminishing Return in Economics. Little did I know this is also found in relationship as well. The illustration my Economist teacher explained then was etched on my innocent mind and I grew up experiencing this in my daily life. I craved for things so much and after getting a bite, two, three, four…I…

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Where are my darling blog readers? My favorite people, the ones who are always ready to listen and read me at all time. Let’s talk about dating today. I almost went MIA 😁 You know I can’t do that to you, just kidding. I’ve been carried away with the frenzy of my birthday. Yes, I was a year older on Saturday and I felt like a baby…the calls and prayers were…

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If you miss the first post, please click here Still others commit all sorts of evil deeds, claiming karma doesn’t exist. They erroneously maintain that since everything is empty, committing evil isn’t wrong. Such persons fall into a hell of endless darkness with no hope of release. Those who are wise hold no such conception.      Bohidharma Nothing ever gets to Ella. Before he’s imprisoned for murder, he needs to…

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If you a fan of MTV Shuga like me, I’m sure you’d love this new season MTV Shuga DownSouth. I’m always making sure I have data to watch the next episode every Saturday morning. One character that gets to me aside all my other favorite characters is Tsholo- the beautiful light skinned girl…

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“The truth is, unless you let go, unless you forgive yourself, unless you forgive the situation, unless you realize that the situation is over, you cannot move forward” – Steve Maraboli Heartbroken? Hurt? Pained? Finding it hard to move on? You can, and you definitely will Dear Girl, you are perfectly stronger that you think  Way stronger… No relationship should make you feel worthless about yourself! None

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Most bad behaviour comes from insecurity -Debra Winger It’s quite easy for him to love you to a fault and still not trust you. Very possible. It’s actually not because he doesn’t want to trust you but because he is super insecure in the relationship. Ladies feel insecure too but I’m going to focus on insecure men in relationships cos I’ve experienced a few and it makes me to understand how…

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Love isn’t always perfect. It isn’t a fairytale or a storybook. And it doesn’t always come easy. I’ve read quite a lot of people abuse the word LOVE. Personally, I feel everyone has the right to talk about an experience based on what it gave them- if it’s good, they say it’s the best feeling; if it’s bad they tell you it’s worse. Love is beautiful. Love is awesome. Love…

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I originally read this post on Immanuel’s blog and I could not resist a good laugh. Y’all should please check out his blog…he blogs about Faith, relationship and inspirational. When I read this post, I felt like he was talking about me. I could connect with almost all of it and I commend bobo for still putting up with me after all these…So it’s this hard, chai! Whether you’re a blogger yourself,…

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So often we find ourselves judging others without even listening to their sides of the story. We judge others based on hearsay and assumptions. While I agree there’s an iota of truth in every rumor, we still need to give others a sense of doubt.

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After a long discussion… Colleague: By the way, are you married? Me: 😊 Ah no Colleague: But why? Me: What kind of question is this? How am I suppose to answer why I’m not yet married?<< lleague: noticed my hesitation… But you will soon, right? Me: Well, yeah…this year or next… Colleague: But how come you are not sure? Me: 😳😳now this is getting really interesting… Well, for one, bobo is…

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Hello darlings, trust you had a great week. Christmas is fast approaching with each passing day. Have you made a wish yet? Trust me, wishes come true. Just believe in your heart as you make this wish and it’s definitely going to come true.   I was viewing my snap stories and saw a particular picture. It wasn’t until much later in the day after a gist with my bestie and…

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