After a long discussion…
Colleague: By the way, are you married?
Me: ? Ah no
Colleague: But why?
Me: What kind of question is this? How am I suppose to answer why I’m not yet married?<< lleague: noticed my hesitation… But you will soon, right?
Me: Well, yeah…this year or next…
Colleague: But how come you are not sure?
Me: ??now this is getting really interesting… Well, for one, bobo is marrying me not the other way round. Plus two, what if we are both not financially ready yet?
Colleague: My dear, you are not supposed to wait for him to be ready. Men are never ready. You are suppose to push him until he is ready. And on the financial ish, get married and see doors opening for you…
Me : I looked at him, shook my head, stood up and walked away… Some of you will say my feminist and faithless side is coming alive.