When I was in college, (we call that secondary school in Nigeria), I learnt the Law of Diminishing Return in Economics. Little did I know this is also found in relationship as well. The illustration my Economist teacher explained then was etched on my innocent mind and I grew up experiencing this in my daily life. I craved for things so much and after getting a bite, two, three, four…I…

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Where are my darling blog readers? My favorite people, the ones who are always ready to listen and read me at all time. Let’s talk about dating today. I almost went MIA 😁 You know I can’t do that to you, just kidding. I’ve been carried away with the frenzy of my birthday. Yes, I was a year older on Saturday and I felt like a baby…the calls and prayers were…

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This post has been sitting in my drafts for some days now but I was indecisive if to post or not. Well, I choose to post because I have just recently installed the SEO plugin, thanks to Karis for hooking me up with this awesome plugin and I thought, let’s see how it works as we also talk about bloggers’ relationship. Yes, I know I am always late to the party. And I…

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When you do contact him, how long does he leave it before responding? If he gets back to you right away, then he was pleased to receive your message and he’s excited to start a conversation – he likes you. If he leaves it a few hours, he might still be really into you but trying to play it cool, or he might not be quite as into you as…

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If you a fan of MTV Shuga like me, I’m sure you’d love this new season MTV Shuga DownSouth. I’m always making sure I have data to watch the next episode every Saturday morning. One character that gets to me aside all my other favorite characters is Tsholo- the beautiful light skinned girl…

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“The truth is, unless you let go, unless you forgive yourself, unless you forgive the situation, unless you realize that the situation is over, you cannot move forward” – Steve Maraboli Heartbroken? Hurt? Pained? Finding it hard to move on? You can, and you definitely will Dear Girl, you are perfectly stronger that you think  Way stronger… No relationship should make you feel worthless about yourself! None

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Most bad behaviour comes from insecurity -Debra Winger It’s quite easy for him to love you to a fault and still not trust you. Very possible. It’s actually not because he doesn’t want to trust you but because he is super insecure in the relationship. Ladies feel insecure too but I’m going to focus on insecure men in relationships cos I’ve experienced a few and it makes me to understand how…

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Love isn’t always perfect. It isn’t a fairytale or a storybook. And it doesn’t always come easy. I’ve read quite a lot of people abuse the word LOVE. Personally, I feel everyone has the right to talk about an experience based on what it gave them- if it’s good, they say it’s the best feeling; if it’s bad they tell you it’s worse. Love is beautiful. Love is awesome. Love…

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I originally read this post on Immanuel’s blog and I could not resist a good laugh. Y’all should please check out his blog…he blogs about Faith, relationship and inspirational. When I read this post, I felt like he was talking about me. I could connect with almost all of it and I commend bobo for still putting up with me after all these…So it’s this hard, chai! Whether you’re a blogger yourself,…

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So often we find ourselves judging others without even listening to their sides of the story. We judge others based on hearsay and assumptions. While I agree there’s an iota of truth in every rumor, we still need to give others a sense of doubt.

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After a long discussion… Colleague: By the way, are you married? Me: 😊 Ah no Colleague: But why? Me: What kind of question is this? How am I suppose to answer why I’m not yet married?<< lleague: noticed my hesitation… But you will soon, right? Me: Well, yeah…this year or next… Colleague: But how come you are not sure? Me: 😳😳now this is getting really interesting… Well, for one, bobo is…

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  Hey darlings. Another day, another blessing!   PDA!!!   PDA simply means Public Display of Affection. In a layman’s language, it means showing off your relationship on social media. The essence of today’s post is to ask if it’s something to be embraced or not and to here your view on it.

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